My preschool years were quite memorable. My siblings and I attended Kiddie Kollege, a Black-owned school in Kansas City, Kansas, where Mrs. Williams, the owner, reinforced many of the same values our parents instilled at home. Two of my favorite lessons were the simple joy of volunteering to set the table at lunchtime and the wonder of learning to type on an old typewriter, certain keys marked in bright colors, all under the patient guidance of Mrs. Williams. Both helped me to appreciate the care in serving others and the importance of accomplishing what others say cannot be done – I learned to type as a preschooler!

Another highlight was the school’s fashion show. Though I don’t remember every detail, photos help me recall my “modeling moment” on stage before a crowded room. I especially remember the yellow outfit my mother handpicked for me (as seen in the photo), and the gentle reminders from my teachers to smile.

The act of modeling naturally places a spotlight on an individual. How a model moves, gestures, responds, reacts, and stands are on display for others to ridicule or to imitate, should others choose to do so. In much the same way, the practice of Christian living is an act of modeling. Choosing to model Christlike living is the testimony we offer without ever speaking a word. Our actions form the manuscript.

How many of us raised our hands in allegiance to God? Raising our hand to commit to walking in God’s way is not putting on a cape and presenting ourselves as superhuman or super-Christian. Rather, our hands raised to God indicates our determination to model grace, resilience, selflessness, love, trust, joy, forgiveness, and much more, despite who we used to be and who we struggle with becoming – one day at a time. 

1 Corinthians 11:1 reminds and motivates: Follow my example, as I follow the example of Christ.” 

As we navigate our modeling moment – on stage, in front of a crowded audience – be mindful:

• Not to be consumed by the flashes of the cameras or lured by flowery accolades. 
• Not to be discouraged by the intentional oversight from others or the disrespect from those who disregard decency and order. 

The above comes with the territory God has given you. Keep your focus on God, the One who found you and lifted you from desolate places. Model your life on His teachings and watch how He uses you to impact not just individuals, but crowds, regions, and even nations. And don’t forget to smile. It is so.

Be well y’all, and much love!

(Pictured: Dr. Tammi Love at 5 years old, modeling at her preschool’s Fashion Show.)